So earlier this evening I took part in Dainty Alice’s “Misfit Bloggers” truth or dare Q&A on Twitter. It was a good giggle and it was actually very refreshing to see sex being talked about so openly and honestly. With kind permission of Alice, I’m gonna repost the questions with my answers…. Only not restricted to 140 characters. Prepare for a little “TMI Time”.
Q1/ What is the name of your ugliest ex?
Probably my ex boyfriend. His name is Adam Kemp, I was 17 he was 20. I thought, at the time, he was quite handsome but looking back…. Nah. His personality was ugly A.F. We were together almost a year and he never openly pressured me for sex, but it was no secret that’s what he wanted. At 17, I just wasn’t ready. Turns out he had been cheating on me anyway. At least 3 months that we were told of, with multiple girls. He dumped me by not texting me for a week. Good riddance. At the time I was heart broken, but I’m so glad I didn’t give in.
Q2/ Does size REALLY matter?
Hmmm ….. This one is very personal to each person. If we go into physicalities then the vast majority of women can’t accommodate more than 6.5-7 inches without discomfort. There are many women who can and some women just like it deep. Personally, it depends on my mood. Sometimes shallow gets me where I’m going and other times I need something… Bigger. My dildo collection goes from 6inch to 9inch in length.
Q3/ How long are you in a relationship before fourth base?
This is like the question “how long is a piece of string?” Again this depends on the persons in the relationship, the relationship itself. With my ex-girlfriend it was three months. Every relationship is different and has different dynamics. You can be together a day and jump in the sack or you can be together for years and not – either is okay and completely normal. Listen to your gut and your instinct and remember to just be relaxed. I know it’s much easier said than done… I found that communication is key. Always be open and honest about your feelings with your partner and listen to them too.
Q4/ tag a blogger you have a HUGE crush on.
I’ll be honest I don’t have any blogger crushes (sorry!) however my girlfriend has a tumblr blog…. Does that count? Vikkikrash.tumblr.com
Q5/ What is your secret fetish/kink/fantasy?
Oooh are we really gonna go there? Well we’ve already talked about dildos so…. Why the fuck not?! Biting/nipping, scratching, hair pulling, spanking. I find female ejaculation (the real deal not the fake crap porn leads us to believe happens) incredibly hot. On the subject of porn; I do enjoy porn on a healthy level. I don’t spend every waking spare moment looking at it and since we’re being so open and honest here, it doesn’t always get me off. I don’t always watch porn to get off. There’s some really funny stuff out there that is laugh out loud funny; especially if you know where to look. As for fantasies….. Good health? ….. Sorry wrong kind of fantasy…. I dunno. Threesom that would include my girlfriend and a certain drummer from a band. I don’t really think I have any fantasies at this stage.
Well thank you for reading….. If you got this far. If you have any questions you wanna ask me then feel free. As you can see, nothing is off limits. And PLEASE check out DaintyAlice and her Twitter. I thank her so much for the use of her questions.